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歸妹 54 · Guī Mèi · The Marrying Maiden

Thunder over Lake — upper Zhèn (arousing, sudden movement); lower Duì (joyous, open, exchanging)

Hexagram 54, The Marrying Maiden (Guī Mèi, 歸妹), is Thunder over Lake. Thunder over lake. Entering a relationship without equal standing.

The situation

Thunder over lake. Entering a relationship without equal standing.

The counsel

Know the limits of your position and take the long view. Do not force what cannot be.

The six lines

Line 1 — Marrying as a secondary wife. The lame can still walk.
Line 2 — The one-eyed can still see. Persist in solitude.
Line 3 — Marrying as a servant. Accept the lesser place.
Line 4 — Missing the time. A late marriage comes.
Line 5 — The princess’s garments plainer than her servant’s; the moon nearly full. Good.
Line 6 — The basket is empty; no blood in the sacrifice. Nothing favours.